Original Posting At http://sandpipersthoughts.blogspot.com/2014/08/give-thanks.html
Kalas, in the book I am reading, asks, "Why express your gratitude to other people?" He answers the questions, and here are my answers (some of which are the same as his):
- We are called to spread light. Remember yesterday when I quoted the idea that gratitude is love with a memory? Sharing gratitude for a service given is sharing love, and that is light. We do it because we are called to do it.
- What if the other person doesn't seem to care about our words of thanks? First of all, you don't really know what effect your words and actions will have on another person. Secondly....
- Being grateful transforms who you are. When we are grateful, we see more for which to be grateful.
- And to put it bluntly, life needs more grace from you and me that it needs silence, or even grumbling.
So give thanks. Kalas, in the first half hour of each day, lists those things from the previous day, for which he is thankful. I've done that for periods of time. It's helpful to me to have a "rule" to list at least three. Specifically. I can look at the blank sheet of paper, and think, "Yesterday was terrible; there is nothing to be grateful for." But if I must list three, I can find them.